post-abortion syndrome

Question and Answer

Is it "normal" to struggle with an abortion in one's past?

Yes, completely normal, even though most women aren't told that prior to their abortion decision. Studies show that most women who choose abortion are going against their own moral codes; this explains why they feel guilt afterwards. And this struggle, unfortunately, may last for a number of years until a post-abortive woman reaches out for help. I've talked to women who had abortions 20 to 25 years ago and were still struggling — a quarter of a century later — feeling like "second class citizens," or as if they'd committed the "unpardonable sin." But hope and healing are available through your local pregnancy resource center.

Background Information

When Grief Doesn't End
Despair can halt the natural and healthy process of grieving.

Post-Abortive Men and the Church
The effects of abortion rear their head in the most unexpected places.

Why the Post-Abortive Woman Doesn't Talk About Her Abortion
Abortion leaves many women feeling deep sadness and extreme emotional distress. Often, the last thing they want to do is talk about it.

Questions and Answers

What are some of the symptoms of Post-Abortion Syndrome?
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Review Frequently Asked Questions

Stories

Left to Suffer
Abortion can leave a woman feeling more empty and alone than she ever dreamed possible.

Life is Sacred
Sometimes the choices we make bring pain. Thankfully, one woman turned to God for healing.

Taboo Grief: Men and Abortion
It's not something most men talk about, but the ones who've lost a child to abortion bear many scars.

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Other Things to Consider

Abuse & AddictionPornography and Cybersex, Sexual Abuse

Parenting ChildrenTalking About Sex

Parenting TeensSexual Activity, Crisis Pregnancy, Homosexuality

TransitionsGetting Married, Adoption, Having a Baby